Today, before playing tennis, the kid – Owner and the twins were just on the court, and leaving. They were mumbling something while walking away. Then I asked Chengyu whether they were the kids who had fight with him, he confirmed.
I felt that I obliged to talk to them, one year after the incident in the pool. I finally got the chance to fire this out, and luckily the twins’s dad was there on the court.
So I called them, ordered them to come back to the court. The twins’s dad was surprised and didn’t know what I were trying to do.
Then I confronted them on what they did to chengyu back then in the pool. To be honest, I know it was two sides of a story, but there were four of them against Chengyu. It is a bully case.
The twins’ dad was a bit stunned by what happened, after I scolded them and they left. The dad scolded the kid until he cried badly.
They came back again and trying to debate on whose fault was it. I made it very clear, it was a fight among kids, hard to tell or no point to tell who started the fire, but what the real problem was 4 against 1, and it was dangerous in the pool, they were trying to drown my kid. That is sth unacceptable.
The whole things ended there. My heart rate went high (130bpm) during the talk, I think I am a bit nervous, or I am too old to have quarrel.
Oh man, another symbol of aging!
Anyway, I feel happy to stand up for my son, should have done this earlier! Next time, I won’t let it slip out of my hand.
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